Parenting ToolsThe first question most parents ask after learning about Conscious Parenting is - "Okay I get it, but what do I do?"When you are transitioning to a more progressive view of parenting, it may be helpful to post the following parenting tools and reminders around the house, on the refrigerator or wherever you are likely to see them everyday. There is a natural hesitancy to try any new technique, especially one that may be judged by others and perceived to be coddling or indulgent. Choosing a new set of parenting tools such as respectful communication, cooperative problem-solving and incorporating sensory tools for stress relief are at the crux of shifting your beliefs about children and parenting. Parenting Tools
Questions to ask yourself before punishing your kids.Is it helpful, is it kind, is it necessary?
The TEACH tool gives you an active five-step process to follow when behaviors are clashing with needs and feelings and the Language Model will help you and your child develop emotional literacy by show you words that work. Name emotions for your child and use compassionate listening to move through conflict and back to a state of calm and emotional regulation.
Have your actions and words left you feeling guilty or sad?The way to know if you are truly acting as your child's emotional coach and in alignment with your authentic parenting style is to check in and see how you feel after a situation with your child. Do you want to feel empowered
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