Make the Shift
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 | What it takes to transform unhealthy patterns in ALL of your relationships. |
| Common mistakes parents make when communicating with their kids and how to use words that WORK. |
| Important ingredients to building cooperation, trust and a safe emotional space. |
| Easy tools to control your anger and uncover your hidden TRIGGERS. |
| How to diffuse and eliminate negative behaviors and conflict with one-simple-act. |
| Vital keys that are crucial to the development of your child's brain. |
YOU can learn the secret to teaching your children
to positively cope with disappointment and change.
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Have you tried time-outs,
reward charts, logical consequences and still have had no luck getting your kids to cooperate?
This series will show you the #1 reason why
punishment and praise provide only short-term benefits.
There is a HUGE reason why kids STOP responding to punitive consequences after a while.
- You know what I'm talking about.
After four trips to the naughty mat, your little guy or gal is still repeating what you've just asked him not to do OR your teen just can't get his homework done no matter how many privileges you take away!
The secret that most parents don't know about what causes punitive consequences to increase resistance is INSIDE this audio series.
Let me be clear, I cannot give you tools to make your kids do what you want, when you want them to, BUT I can show you what is missing from almost every mainstream parenting article and advice book out there today!
What other satisfied parents are saying!
I'll show you how to develop healthy, intimate bonds with your children and change the way you look at parenting forever!
I'm ready to make the commitment to my children and myself and transform my parenting.
And I'll throw in these
FREE BONUSES !
1. The ABC's of Conscious Parenting Audio & Companion PDF Report
This 47 page e-book guide and 90 minute audio seminar will outline the philosophy behind Conscious Parenting and you will discover why almost ALL traditional parenting advice is unwittingly sabotaging your relationship with your child and increasing resistance and what you can do to SHIFT.
2. Stress Proof Your Kids (&YOU!)
In this (90 min) audio class with clinical therapist Elizabeth Walther, you will learn about the biology of stress and how to show your children how to use body intelligence to recognize, respond to and regulate tough times and strong emotions!
3. MYTH-BUSTING - Top 5 Parenting Myths Exposed!
This (90 min) teleseminar with special guest and the creator of the wildly popular Facebook page Positive Parenting Toddlers & Beyond, Becky Eanes and I will tackle the FIVE BIGGEST MYTHS about Conscious Parenting in this bonus call and clear up some common misconceptions that may be unconsciously interfering with your relationship and ability to influence your child.Yes, I'm READY NOW to |
I understand that my purchase includes the following audio lessons and bonus materials:
- Make the Shift Transformational Series - (6 .mp3 audio lessons & slide handouts)
- TEACH Study Guide - a 50+ page workbook w/exercises.
- Bonus #1&2 - The ABC's of Conscious Parenting Audio & Companion PDF Report (90 min audio, slides & 47 page ebook)
- Bonus#3 - Stress-Proof Your Kids Audio (90 min audio and slides)
- Bonus #4 - Myth-Busting - Top 5 Parenting Myths Debunked! Audio (90 min)
A $427 value for
$327
only $247
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Please follow the STEPS below to complete your PURCHASE and download your audios.
- STEP 1: Make your payment through Paypal
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Course Outline
Listen to Class Samples
This in-depth 6 Lesson Series is suitable for families and professionals alike and will guide you toward making REAL CHANGE in your home or classroom!
TEACH through Love
Parent Education Series Outline
1. Make the Shift, A Paradigm Comparison: Conscious vs. Traditional
2. Authentic Relationships
3. Brain Science & Child Development
4. The Library of Love : Building Emotional Literacy
5. The Language of Love: Compassionate Communication
6. Anger & Stress
Class Descriptions
Class One
1. Make the Shift, A Paradigm Comparison: Conscious vs. Traditional: Explores the dynamics of love and fear based child-rearing, the history of hierarchical systems and the evolution of dominant paradigms. Examines core differences between the two philosophies and shares recent science to show why shifting to a conscious view is beneficial to not just families, but society as a whole.Parents often find themselves reacting to their children from a place of fear, control and disapproval rather than responding from a place of love - with curiosity and openness. RESPONSIBILITY = the ability to respond.
Parents will learn:
It is our responsibility as parents (teachers, grandparents, caregivers etc.) to guide, protect and model in our responses those qualities that we want our children to emulate.
Parents will successfully develop the ability to make conscious choices by learning to notice their manner, tone and style of communicating and by making shifts to become more compassionate and less judgmental in their reactions.
Class Two
2. Authentic Relationships: Guides parents to find their true parenting ethic by reflecting on their childhood and personal history and asks them to identify what they would like to change about their current relationships. Pinpoints current strengths and struggles and targets areas for the next stage of growth.
Our emotional set-point is determined by our early experiences. Without subsequent attention and transformation, our current actions and reactions are a reflection of our first five years of life. Parents will develop self-awareness by learning how to replace limiting beliefs.
Parents will explore the past:
- How you were parented & how your parents were parented.
- Defining moments.
- Cultural/gender differences and areas of struggle.
- Connecting the dots and healing the past.
Parents will envision the future:
- Creating family goals.
- Honoring the child inside.
- Replacing limiting beliefs with visualizations and affirmations.
- Being authentic.
- Re-patterning thoughts.
By integrating childhood experiences and defining moments into their life perception through acknowledgment, acceptance and healing, parents can begin to take control of the emotional roller coaster that keeps them from being able to truly and authentically connect with their children.
Class Three
3. Brain Science & Child Development: Explains the importance of understanding a child's developmental stages and the slow-growth development of the human brain. Shows parents how to connect negative behaviors to unmet needs, feelings or stress and describes key facts about the brain and what it needs to grow. Introduces the Stress Model and the TEACH tool - 5 steps for conflict resolution.The brain science surrounding child development has exploded in the last fifteen years. It is almost impossible to continue perpetuating a dominant, traditional paradigm once parents understand a few key brain facts about development. This knowledge will enhance opportunities for creating optimal environments for learning and teaching children about their world and their bodies.
Parents will learn:
- To respond from a place of calm confidence.
- What constitutes stress and trauma.
- How the physiological responses to stress inhibit cognition.
- Tools for setting up a flexible emotional blueprint.
- Strategies for utilizing the unique gifts of each developmental stage.
Emotional intelligence is a clear predictor of a child's future success AND the ability to parent effectively. Parents will learn to support their child's optimal development with a basic understanding of the inner-workings of the human brain and the behavioral effects of stress and trauma.
Class Four
4. The Library of Love: Building Emotional Literacy: Builds the emotional intelligence of the whole family through deepening parents’ understanding of empathy and emphasizing the importance of building a language of feelings and needs. Introduces the Language Model, Feelings List and Needs List as concrete tools for implementing compassionate communication skills.With a practical and thorough understanding of empathy and its affect on the central nervous system, parents will learn strategies for developing their child’s emotional vocabulary and body intelligence, which will build trust, respect and increase their child's ability to express his emotions positively.
Parents will learn to:
- Identify and name feelings and needs.
- Separate needs from the "behavioral actions.”
- Uncover their child's unmet needs by connecting at the heart level.
- Express their feelings and needs without guilt, shame, blame or fear.
- Teach children a vocabulary of feelings through mirroring and emotion coaching.
Our emotions are an important component in our regulatory system. Creating a language of feelings so that children can learn how to identify their emotions, name them and process them out of the body, instead of unconsciously channeling frustration into negative behaviors or stuffing down their feelings, is highlighted.
Needs are tricky and sometimes hard to identify but all behavior stems from an attempt to satisfy some basic human need - for belonging, trust, inclusion, value, attention, privacy, autonomy, mastery, love, comfort purpose etc., whatever it is, the path to success is through compassion.
Class Five
5. The Language of Love: Compassionate Communication: Identifies core language differences between the conscious and traditional paradigms. Helps parents develop communication skills by using the TEACH tool in scenarios reflecting typical behaviors such as resistance, inflexibility, anger, aggression, lying, stealing, school problems etc.It is important for parents to validate their own feelings, needs, obstacles and discoveries along the path to creating emotional healing and family connection. This class will give tools for recording progress and family goals and actual language examples with interactive exercises depicting real-life scenarios.
Parents will:
- Explore verbal abuse & the history of violence.
- Learn how to use empathy to communicate from the heart.
- Create a family doctrine (values, acceptable language, contributions).
- Find the fear behind resistance and “misbehavior.”
- Learn how to heal disconnections.
Using heart-centered communication is about creating a safe space to express emotions and problem-solve cooperatively. Learning to approach children without judgment and with an open heart requires changing our language, expectations, attitude and tone.
Class Six
6. Anger & Stress: Redefines anger as parents while supporting parents as they identify triggers and learn to self-regulate intense emotions and reactions. Stresses the importance of learning to manage stress, problem-solve cooperatively and create space before reacting in order to raise tolerance and practice compassion.Stress, anger and unmet needs cause both parents and children to REACT instead of RESPOND. Parents will learn how stress and anger can damage the developing brain and how to implement sensory regulation and stress-management tools for the whole family.
Parents will explore:
- Dysregulation and each family member’s window of tolerance/temperament.
- Personal tools for stress-relief.
- Triggers and transforming negative expressions.
- What kid stress/anger looks like.
Learning to regulate stress by identifying triggers and actively adopting a mindful attitude is a cornerstone of the conscious parenting paradigm. Change happens through relationship and it takes time and a commitment to apply the principles and trust in the process.
You won't be disappointed!
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